We’re Halfway There…

It’s hard to believe that today marks the halfway point in our year-long adventure. Exactly six months ago we closed on the sale of the house, did our final cleanup, packed the trailer and headed to Charlottesville for our first night as full-time travelers.

As we’ve been approaching this milestone, I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about what reaching the halfway point means: Is it about what we’ve learned? The experiences we’ve had? The people we’ve met? The things that have gone wrong… or the things that have gone right? I’d love to say that I’ve come up with some great profound lesson in this – but if I did I’d most certainly be lying.

For me, it is always difficult to see the big-picture meaning around a time or an event while in the midst of it. Be it an adventure, a vacation, having met someone, starting a new job… it’s kind of like when I get in a discussion or an argument with someone. I’m not someone who is a good debater on the spot – but give me some time to think on it and I’ll come up with a hundred arguments.

So instead, here are some thoughts and observations, on the last six months… in no particular order:

Are Darryl and I still on speaking terms? Believe it or not, this is actually the question I have been asked most often whilst on this trip! Probably asked in jest, but with genuine curiosity as well. Yes, even after six months of sharing only 160 square feet and being together nearly 24/7 for the majority of the time we are still getting along! Is our relationship stronger? I’m not sure I would say that – we have always been a pretty tight couple. Has our relationship changed? Probably – but I can’t pinpoint any particular changes at this point. It has been a LOT of closeness… and we have definitely had our moments along the way. But I think Darryl would agree that after fifteen years of marriage, and six months in to this trip, we’re in pretty good shape.

This lifestyle can get lonely at times. It is tough to meet people when you are only spending a day or two in one place, and even when you do meet folks it can be hard to make a real connection. That said, our summer in Alaska was absolutely filled with friends and family (because they really are our Alaska family!), and we have been very fortunate to have met some wonderful people along the way so far. For the next few months we’ll be staying in the same places for longer and we’ll be seeing the kids for Thanksgiving and Christmas – which we are really looking forward to!

This lifestyle can also be stressful – just in different ways than your typical household stress. Finding places to stay every night where Darryl has the connectivity he needs to work has been challenging at times. After a lot of trial and error, we’ve finally gotten all of the right equipment – we think – and now that we are in areas that are closer to bigger cities cell service is less of a challenge. And God Bless Starbucks… high speed internet AND Pumpkin Spice Lattes – SCORE! It is still stressful heading into a new camp every night – but once we know we’re ok for work at the campsite (or there is a Starbucks fairly close by) we can relax.

We knew that we would have to adjust our “master schedule” at times – and as we’ve gotten further into the trip, we’ve realized how deviating from the plan has resulted in some of the best experiences of the trip. In escaping the Montana wildfires, we ended up spending three wonderful weeks in Moab. Because we were tired of all the rain on the Oregon Coast, we headed south earlier than we planned and have really able to take our time through the Redwoods which has been absolutely amazing.

Equipment-wise, we would have brought less “stuff” – less clothing, fewer shoes, and left the kayaks at home (we have yet to put them in the water). We would have brought the roof-top tent to use while we were in Alaska and Moab. But generally-speaking we are pretty pleased with our choices and our planning.

So I guess the next question is, “Are we going to keep going?” Most definitely. Are we any closer to knowing where we want to settle at the end of the adventure? Not at all… Knowing what we know now, would we do it again? Absolutely.

Here’s to the next six months… We can’t wait to see what it brings!